By: Ana Margarita Olar| Vigorbuddy.com
New Year is a symbolic day when most people decide to start something new. It may include changing for the better, improving one’s self and letting go of unproductive habits. Here are some things you might consider throwing out of your life:
SELF BLAMING
So you have committed mistakes this year. Here’s the surprise: everybody also commits mistakes. Everybody has their own failure. We only differ on how we act after each failure.
Do you still blame yourself for a mistake you have done eons ago? Throw it all away before the year ends. As Robert Kiyosaki, entrepreneur and best-selling author teach us: Failure is the part of the process of success. People who avoid failure also avoid success.
NEGATIVE PEOPLE
If you want to start with positivity, then it’s time to eliminate negative people from your life. Whether it is a romantic relationship or just an acquaintance it doesn’t matter. If it brings grief, negativity, and misery, get rid of it before the year ends.
What about if the negative people are close to you? (Wife, husband, or close blood relatives)? You may consider a heart to heart talk about it. If it doesn’t work out, then you may consider walking out of it.
ANXIETY
Reminiscing about the past and anticipating the future is a normal process of thinking. But, if constant worrying causes fatigue, depression, and anxiety, it’s not normal.
You must seek some help on how to get rid of it. Anxiety drains out positivity and makes us unhappy and unproductive. So if you want a new beginning, throw out your anxiety before the year ends.
EXCUSES
How many times did you plan something but didn’t pursue because of so many excuses? It’s time to step up right now. It’s a new year, a new beginning. Stop making excuses.
If making an excuse is your hobby, then replace it with trials and errors. Instead of making an excuse, be bold and get moving. If on action doesn’t work, be quick to move on and proceed with another plan.
VICES AND UNHEALTHY HABITS
Start the year right by making an effort to take care of your body. Quit smoking and alcohol and choose a healthy lifestyle. If you want to be positive in life, you have to start by making positive changes in your body.
You don’t have to wait for another new year to throw away these things. Focus on important things that can make you successful. Learn to let go of the things that keep you from reaching your dreams.